I don't know why I'm posting this, but I feel like I needed to write it out somewhere. It's really rough...
Yes, it's sad and frustrating to look back at these people and wish that they would wake up, leave the cult, and get on with life like you have, and keep them as friends in a post-JW relationship... but they don't get it, they don't wake up. Instead, they want to seduce you back into the ignorance and slavery of being a WT Corp stooge.
And you're posting this here because we've been through a lot of the same stuff. Hang in there!